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Are Dating Events Right For Me?

Dating Events Scenergy Dating

At Scenergy Dating, we host monthly dating events all across the country. From Boston to Los Angeles and Portland to San Antonio, we host events to give singles the opportunity to be involved with the local dating scene. While we get a wide range of questions about dating in general or our matchmaking services, many questions relate directly to our singles events.

So you want to know, is dating events right for me?

It honestly depends on your situation. Dating events are great for professionals due to the amount of time you spend at work. It can be difficult to find someone you’re interested in when you work a lot. While we host dating events during the work week, we also have weekend events and these are the types of events you’d likely consider attending due to your work schedule.

Since most single professionals work during the day, we usually host singles events in the evening, often starting between 6:00 p.m. and 8:00 p.m.

Our Dating Events Are A Perfect Fit If You Are

  • Serious about dating
  • Open to meeting new people
  • Willing to give dating a chance
  • Willing to arrange your schedule for dating
  • Single but willing to date

Have You Had A Bad Dating Experience?

A large percentage of our singles have had bad dating experiences. It’s not uncommon to get single men and women that have been hurt. For this reason, a lot of singles guard their heart closely. We have a wide mix of singles in different dating stages. Some have only been single for a short time, others have been single for years.

The great thing about our dating events is that you’ll have the opportunity to meet others that have walked in your shoes. It’s nice to have someone relate to you, have someone that understands what you’ve been feeling, what you’ve had to deal with. Some of our singles are divorced without kids, others are divorced with children. So our dating events bring in singles from all walks of life and past dating experiences.

Giving Love A Second Chance

I know it can be difficult to open your heart and let another person get close. I know the pain you felt, the sadness, anger and depression. However, by doing so, you miss out on life and opportunity. You keep yourself shielded from others, walls around your heart. But you deserve to feel happy, you deserve the opportunities to share your life with someone that cares. Don’t ever forget that. Our singles events allow you to get back into dating at your own pace.

If we don’t allow ourselves to be loved, we miss out on what makes love so special, a true gift love is. Just because you attend an event doesn’t mean that you have to make a choice then and there. Scenergy Dating will never pressure you. These are stepping stones for you, so go at your own pace. The important element is the fact that you were willing to attend, this is part of the healing process.

Opportunity To Make New Friends

Of course it’s natural to get caught up in the dating hype at a singles events, but our events also allow you to make new friends and meet new people. How many of you have locked yourself away? How many of you are no longer socially active? This behavior is not healthy and I get it, the pain of losing someone you love can be terrible, Even so, we have to move on from it. We have to get back up on our feet. Time really does heal pain.

Sure, our dating events are meant for you to find someone that you’re attracted to, have chemistry with, but we understand that this doesn’t happen for everyone. Everyone has the right to go at their own pace. Our dating events help break down the walls of your heart.

Matchmaking Is An Option

While many men and women end up in relationships due to our singles events, some have trouble and never find their soul mate through events. Although the percentage is much less, for these singles, we offer matchmaking services.  Our professional certified matchmakers help men and women find singles that they match up with.

Scenergy Dating’s matchmaking service has been very successful over the years. It’s something that we take great pride in. We understand the emotional landscape. I can’t think of another company that is more invested in getting to know you, your wants and needs. We take the time to learn everything we can about you, this will help us find singles that relate to what you want.

Remember, we have 11 different cities we host singles events in. We have dozens of dating groups on Meetup, Facebook, Google+ and other platforms. If you’re serious about finding that special someone  and dating, we want to help, we can help. Below, you’ll see our contact details. Please feel free to contact us or ask questions, we are here to help.


Los Angeles Matchmaking Services

From Boston to Los Angeles, Scenergy Dating matchmaker and CEO Chris Feliciano has helped countless singles find meaningful relationships. As one of the most decorated matchmakers in the country, his company Scenergy Dating is beginning to become a major player in the dating world. Only through his upscale dating service will you find the high caliber people with whom you’re most compatible. We do all the “behind the scenes” work while you enjoy the company of qualified singles you most likely match, just one of the many services Scenergy Dating and Feliciano offer.

Our LA matchmaker services are simply unrivaled for uniting and bringing couples together. By incorporating our proven approach in singles matchmaking, we take the time to truly get to know our clients. This is what sets us apart from any other LA matchmaker or San Francisco matchmaker.

Our elite matchmaking services involve more than simply comparing interests of two people. It comes down to discovering what really makes each of us who we are. Our goals, inspirations and hopes; our political views, our jobs and how we feel about raising families; these are far more important than whether or not we enjoy dining together. At Scenergy Dating, we focus on those key elements that matter most in a relationship.

For those of you that need to learn more about our company and what we represent, our L.A. dating events give you that unique opportunity. Scenergy Dating host events in Los Angeles every few weeks, giving you yet another chance to meet the local dating crowd. Our single events are hosted with the highest of quality in mind, ensuring that all attendees get what they pay for. And speaking of pay, you won’t break the band attending one of our Los Angeles singles events as we offer affordable event tickets ranging from $15-$25 for most events.

If you’re not able to make a connection at one of our events, you always have the option to go with our matchmaking services. We’ll walk you through the quick easy process of getting signed up and you’ll be on your way to meaningful dates and relationships.

If you have any questions regarding our services, please feel free to call us at 1-877-41-CUPID

Why Are Men And Women So Different?

I can’t recall how many times I’ve heard this question, “Why are men and women so different?” Women want to know how men think, men want to know how women think. We’ve all heard about Women being from Venus and Men from Mars. How does that speak to you? The takeaway? Men and women are complete opposites.

When trying to figure out why men and women are different, we have to take an outside approach, meaning looking at the good and bad in both. Myths would be that women are lovers and men are fighters, which couldn’t be further from the truth. Sure, some women are lovers, some men fighters, but everyone is unique. We can’t class majorities.

Think about sex if you will. We’re told as a society that men think with two heads, but rarely used the head between his shoulders. We’re told that men do all the cheating, but studies show that both sexes equally cheat. As a society, we’re taught to believe one way or the other. These big dating myths cloud our decision making. Men and women are different because we were programmed that way from day one. We were also designed to survive, so men were given the art of the pursuit.

At Scenergy Dating, we do provide elite matchmaking services. What do most men and women want? Someone who shares the same likes and dislikes. Someone that shares the same interest, same hobbies, same passions. While men and women are programmed differently, there’s a lot we all have in common. And who doesn’t want to find that special someone that shares your deepest passions in life. It’s not uncommon to want that, so bottom line, men and women do share interest.

The keys to any successful relationship is communication, trust, understanding and patience. It doesn’t matter if you’re a male or female, these keys are needed for both sexes. Communication in a relationship is vital, trust between partners is equally important. Understanding and patience play a big role in relationships also. So it’s often these qualities we seek in the opposite sex.

The more we differ, the more we realize that while both sexes are programmed differently, we’re also alike in many ways. Everyone is unique, everyone has something to offer in a relationship. For those of you seeking love, be sure to remain open and don’t judge a book by its cover. Get to know others for what’s inside. Sure, we all need physical attraction, but there’s a truth about that soul that is rewarding and remarkable when you find it in another.