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“Naked Guy Pic” – 5 Observations & Random Thoughts

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Yes you might think, “Wow that is a tasteless photo” well it definitely is – and it’s very real. The photo included in this blog inspired the writings below, after it was reported by one of our own clients in Boston. For some reason, this photo became the “gentlemen’s” profile photo on a meetup.com group. I can just imagine his mindset as he stood in front of that mirror one fateful evening and proceeded to take a few photos until he decided which one was the weiner out of all of them. Then he uploads the photo on to his computer and starts to mess with some default blue Powerpoint shapes to expertly cover up his face and “Mr. Russel the Oned Eyed Muscle”.

Have us men lost our complete sanity? What has convinced us that a quality woman will magically swoon and feel chemistry based on a picture like this?

5 Observations & Random Thoughts:

1. Men are naturally the hunters which makes them much more assertive and forthright with their sexual desires. Women on the other hand desire a more emotional and invested approach, so it takes time and self-discipline.

2. A woman needs to feel that there is some sort of exclusivity or at least the feeling of before expressing themselves in a sexual manner. Though it’s never proven, it is more likely that a woman that’s much more polished compared to her counterparts will take longer to express her sexual side. The sad assumption is men assume she will be a bore when things become finally become intimate. They don’t wait around and get back to their naked selfie ways.

3. There was at least one woman that accepted and encouraged him to send that photo, he now has accepted that as the law of the land in his “dating paradigm” (I’ll discuss dating paradigm in a members only video). He may not have the patience or energy to earn a good woman by his side, thus that type of photo becomes his profile.

4. Honestly should not always be rewarded. He may think to himself, “Well at least I’m letting women know what my intentions are” is not always a justification. Men should call other men out in the name of brotherhood and women should call these type of men out just for their own self-improvement. Us humans have a way of allowing ego and distorted reality to convince us we are doing the right thing when it comes to dating – that’s where a DateDoc comes in ; )

5. A bit related to #1 and #2 but it’s hard to believe someone can bounce back and talk about metaphysics, life goals, and their interpretation of zodiac sign compatibility when they lead with a “won’t break the internet” photo. Adding a bit of caliber and respect to your repertoire will make you a more valued man.

So what are your thoughts, do women secretly enjoy these type of photos or could do without being bombarded by R rated from the get go? Men, are you guilty of sending a naked photo a bit quicker than you should have?

Heck who knows, I guess if animals could text they would send photos of them wearing clothes during mating season.

 

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…now my eyes don’t feel as cursed anymore!

 

Until next time,

Chris “DateDoc” Feliciano

www.scenergy-dating.com