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Dating in 1995 vs 2015: How 20 Years Have Changed the Game

Dating 2015 vs Dating 1995

by:  Chris Feliciano

Published:  February 9, 2015

Just give me 30 minutes honey, just need to load their page.

Just give me 30 minutes honey, just need to load their page.

 

Let’s take a trip down memory lane with this hilarious yet ironically true account of dating 20 years ago versus now. Maybe in your fantasies of neon fanny packs and Alanis Morissette songs you can find commonality with these stories. If you’re too young to remember 1995, then enjoy a yesteryear of improved social interactions in the dating game.

 

1995

John, 26 year old engineer, would go into a local Irish bar where he would lock eyes with a gorgeous yet shy redhead. The discussion that becomes an excuse for a first date is centered around the local Smashing Pumpkins cover band playing on stage. They eventually start a relationship and enjoy their weekly “marathon” of watching Friends.

 

2015

John, 26 year old engineer, takes a moment to post on Facebook that he is about to enter an Irish Bar. While tagging his friends, he misses out on the gorgeous redhead who’s too busy on her phone researching live bands. They both go home alone without ever knowing they live in the same apartment complex, all while binging on old episodes of Friends on Netflix.

 

Quasi urban hipsters before the word existed.

Quasi urban hipsters before the word existed.

1995

Lisa, 40 year old financial advisor, enters a happening coffee shop called Starbucks to pick up a new popular drink called a Frapuccino. She sees a polished gentleman reading a newspaper and greets him by making a comment based on the article facing her. The gentleman lowers the newspaper to reveal a wickedly charming smile and introduces himself. They later go on to become regulars at a nearby Starbucks where they discuss random things like the potential of a new actress named Angelina Jolie and Windows 95.

 

2015

Lisa, 40 year old wealth manager, enters a Starbucks and without hesitation goes over her detailed order with the barista. She quickly sits down and starts checking her work emails, text messages, Facebook notifications, and tweets. A good looking gentleman is reading a book off his tablet and continuously switches his attention between his tablet and trying to catch Lisa’s attention. After several attempts, he continues reading his book as Lisa storms off with her medium hot, light on whip cream, and custom espresso shot drink – never having a chance to have met her secret admirer.

 

1995

A group of gentlemen pass by a class of ladies during a Tae Bo class at the local gym, the most socially awkward of the group catches the attention of the female instructor. He comments, “Wow she’s like a hot Xena Warrior Princess”, and patiently waits for the class to end. The fitness instructor turns the corner and is immediately intercepted by the lanky yet confident gentleman who asks for her AOL screen name. She obliges and goes on to let him know which chat rooms she frequents. He smiles, licks his braces, and givers her an overly enthusiastic hand shake before jogging away to catch up with friends.

 

2015

A group of gentlemen pass by a class of ladies during a Zumba class at their local Crossfit hybrid studio. The geek of the group catches the attention of the instructor as he comments, “Wow she’s like Shakira with neon tassels.” The gentleman awkwardly stands inside the Zumba class until it is complete. He approaches the instructor and asks his smartphone, “How do I ask out a Zumba instructor” and his smartphone replies “I don’t understand your question.” The Latina instructor nods her head in laughter and introduces herself. He swings his hand around to shake hers and they walk each other out of the studio. Two weeks after that fateful night they are regularly seen walking the boardwalk together, one hand holding hers while the other is translating Spanish on his mobile Rosetta Stone.

"Hey you check out that Brad Pitt guy in that one vamp movie...kinda cute!"

“Hey you check out that Brad Pitt guy in that one vamp movie…kinda cute!”

Accurate, unfair, or bias?  Let us know what you think below and if not then tell us your favorite memory of 1995.

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3 thoughts on “Dating in 1995 vs 2015: How 20 Years Have Changed the Game

  1. cdhapril

    Love the comment about Xena! I love that warrior show. I agree with you about dating and in general relationships in 2015! Not only in love but I feel my generation was one of the last ones that actually learned how to have a conversation over the phone! I remember looking forward to run into the guy I liked in my apartment complex. It was fire in my heart and the only thing I dreamed about was for him to talk to me, until one day while I was walking my pup one of his friends invited
    me to go to a bonfire they were having one night. I had no cellphone and the only way to communicate was to call each other to the cord-house phone or ring at the apartment door. Those experiences would be to hard to be experienced now, because we are addicted to our smartphone and yes we let opportunities pass right in front of us!

    I miss those days, dearly. Granted that I’m an old soul :)

    Caro

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